I'm not on this earth to be popular. I'm not here to be a pleaser. I'm certainly not here to whinge about my life and do nothing about it.
I'm a do something kinda gal. I'm here to make a better life for my family and loved ones.
I'm here to give back. Im here to serve and help others - should they wish to help themselves first, that is.
I'm here to find out what true happiness is and find ways to live it every day.Read More
One year ago, I decided to stop swapping time for money, and start a network marketing business.
I decided to make some time for it in amongst the other office work and businesses I run, and supported by my gorgeous thriller-writing husband, who knows what reoccurring income is all about (and how hard you have to work for it), and got started.
A year is going to pass whether I start something new or not, so it was fantastic that the natural energy I had for the business combined with consistent learning, being coachable and being open, oh and that special ingredient determination and elbow grease, is now paying off.
From a year ago, there's now a network of thirty of us doing this business, some fast, some slow, as well as a network of clients numbering in the hundreds who choose our pure, safe and beneficial 500-strong range over the toxins that appear in store bought products.
Still though, there's something we continue to come up against, time and again, which is the preconceived idea that a network marketing business is akin to running a pyramid scheme.
To that, I have to say - quite politely, but firmly:
Pyramid my arse.Read More
People find inspiration in unexpected places. This morning, inspiration struck whilst wandering into a room featuring an upturned wicker basket of small people’s shoes.
The inspiration was not due the pint-sized jogger-shaped mess on the floor - created by one four year old simply to wanting to see what was at the bottom of the basket – rather the framed words of wisdom from Dr Seuss buried amongst the stuffed toys, Thunderbird rockets and Lego blocks on the shelving nearby.Read More
This post first appeared on my first blog in July 2010. Four years on, Dad's business advice is worth re-sharing - and wishing him many happy returns for his now 88th birthday on 30 July! Love you Dad - and thanks.
Born in 1926 in Detroit, Michigan, this quiet American, known as Mal Grigg, has sailed oceans, managed large-scale refrigeration companies in three countries, brought up half a dozen kids, enjoyed the company of the same number of grandkids, and is as sharp and active as ever.
Maybe his everlasting youth is in part due to his 'childbride' (my Mum), who keeps him on his toes by arranging adventures away, gets him off to the local gym, makes a mean Manhattan and creates unforgettable home-cooked meals.
These days, it's less common for our family to sit together at the dinner table, receiving Dad's nightly lectures on politics, finance, philosophy and everything in between. Still, I get articles and letters from Dad, furthering my life's instruction via the postman.
I received a great dissertation from Dad last September, the no nonsense 'Ten Rules for Business and Life.'
With permission, I have copied down his classic 'Mal-isms': this smart man knows, both literally and figuratively, how to hit the nail on the head.
I went to a conference for my new business. In Las Vegas.
I mean, a girl's got to go there at least once in her life, right? But it was also for work. I wanted to see the Chief Exec of the new company speak, get a sense for the leadership and culture first hand.
And I wanted to drink martinis, eat at Hooters and get some new boots at the Outlet Mall.
(That's what you do in Vegas, of course)
So off I went, and loved every minute. Apart from the heart-wrenching feeling missing the boys on Mother's Day, the day before I was due to come home.
But I was there for my business and my family (and my wardrobe) - I had another, higher purpose than just drinking martinis and eating buffalo wings (which were, just incidentally, deep fried with a side of blue cheese dressing).
I heard so many great people speak that week on the stage at the MGM Grand, and committed it to memory.
There was this one phrase that I still can't let go of.
"This is a face-to-face, heart-to-heart business."
What does that even mean? Why did I like it so much?Read More
The other day I was at an event and heard something from a dear friend and biz partner that's had me thinking ever since.
"You can put your dreams back on the table."
It was like a shock of electricity. It awoke childhood memories, ideas from years past. I recalled places I dreamed of travelling to, like New York and Antarctica and South Africa. I recalled the folder of homes from when we first married.
But most of all, it created a feeling inside me, one that hasn't subsided since.Read More